yeah I mean I mostly avoid the issue by only using canon fcs when I can but I definitely do the same "stick to my friends" thing (which of course has been given the buzzwordy name "bubble rp" to make it sound like a Problem). I'm just glad I finally stopped having the brainpower to maintain all but one of my muses, who I write in a style that doesn't really gel with how most tumblr rp, bc I'm sure if that hadn't killed it for me then my observations of the culture would have by now